The holiday shopping season is upon us and the pressure is already mounting. As millions of Americans hit the roads to find the perfect gifts, AAA wants to help you navigate the potential stress and chaos of holiday shopping without losing your cool.

The real danger: Road rage in the parking lot

We've all been there. You're circling a packed parking lot, tempers are rising, and that perfect parking spot seems impossible to find.

"Often times, the stress and distractions of the shopping season impact drivers who are looking for the perfect gift or an open parking spot," said Elizabeth Carey, director of public relations at AAA Western and Central New York. "These frustrations can become dangerous when drivers take their anger out on other drivers. AAA is asking everyone to use caution and drive as safely as possible."

The truth about aggressive driving

A recent AAA Foundation for Traffic Safety report revealed some eye-opening insights:

• Speeding, distracted driving, and aggressive behaviors are alarmingly common
• Most drivers recognize these behaviors as dangerous, yet many still engage in risky driving practices

What exactly is road rage?

It's more than just feeling angry. Road rage includes dangerous behaviors like:

• Tailgating intentionally
• Yelling at other drivers
• Making angry gestures
• Blocking lane changes
• Purposely cutting off other vehicles
• Confronting drivers outside their vehicles

Tips for staying calm and safe

On the road

• Keep a safe following distance
• Use turn signals
• Be patient with other drivers
• Use your horn sparingly (and kindly)

Handling potential confrontations

• Never fight aggression with more aggression
• If you feel threatened, drive to a public place like a police station
• Stay calm and courteous

The golden rules of holiday driving

1. Don't offend: Avoid actions that force other drivers to change speed or direction
2. Be tolerant: Remember, everyone's dealing with holiday stress
3. Don't engage: Skip the eye contact and gestures
4. Stay safe: Call 911 if you feel seriously threatened

This holiday season, the greatest gift you can give is safety—both to yourself and other drivers. Take a deep breath, plan ahead, and remember that no parking spot or gift is worth risking your safety or peace of mind.

Stay merry, bright, and most importantly, safe on the roads this holiday and every day with driver education from AAA.

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